Will he accept and appreciate this in this situation? Opinions please?

Ok, so my birthday is coming up, and on my birthday I have decided to parcel %26#039;some greenery%26#039; to his workplace. The catch is, because we are not dating as such, and we are not on the same page, as in I am not sure if he loves me back (although we are talking almost everyday and care for each other) he had said sometime back that I should not send him anything, that he won%26#039;t accept it.





So if I send him a plant on my birthday to his workplace, will he accept it if I tell him sending him something was actually a gift to ME and not him?

Will he accept and appreciate this in this situation? Opinions please?
I%26#039;m not trying to hurt your feelings at all, but that idea is really goofy and makes no sense. I%26#039;m ALL for trying to manipulate and maneuver here, but I%26#039;m not getting what you are trying to put down. What are you trying to accomplish? Are you trying to get him to take the next step? Scratch that idea, come up with something better. :) Good luck...
Reply:Not sure why you would give someone a gift on your birthday. A little strange. And yes, you are manipulating. When you do something purposely to obtain a desired result other than being direct -It%26#039;s called manipulation. Report It

Reply:He said he doesn%26#039;t want gifts; you shouldn%26#039;t give him gifts. Maybe his workplace has issues about gifts, or maybe he%26#039;s shy, or maybe he doesn%26#039;t want anyone to know you%26#039;re dating him (which is really lame).





Because the item is going to be delivered to him, he%26#039;s going to see it as a gift to him whether you say it%26#039;s to you or not. I%26#039;d pass. You might want to ask him why he said no gifts though.



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