My BF does not do holidays, birthdays anniversaries or anything!!?

I have dated my BF for 2 yrs and since we started dating he has only bought me a necklace and a hand written card for our first valentiens day! he didnt get me anything for my 20th B-day i bought him and his friends alcohol and dinner, our one year anniv, my 21st b-day i bought him alcohol, nothing for christmas in 05, 06, or this year or our 2 yr anniversary. he gets me plants here and there cause i love plants. But it would be nice to go out to dinner other than McDonalds sometimes, or a nice gift that he put some thought into. He sucks at being romantic, and i am a girl who needs romance. He claims that fixing my car and getting my work clothes ready for me when i am in a hurry is doing little things for me. C'mon where is the ROMANCE!!

My BF does not do holidays, birthdays anniversaries or anything!!?
Sounds to me like he may not be whole heartedly in this relationship... He probably won't like it, but sit him down and talk to him, set out what you want in the relationship. If he doesn't go for it, drop him.
Reply:lol is this a question or just u complaining about your crappy bf


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Reply:If you haven't already try asking him why he doesn't or if you don't want to ask one of your best friend or if u can trust them one of his friends to ask him in a non-obvious way if theres a reason why hes not really romantic. Most lads r very very romantic when they want to be but don't like to show it. talk to him and tell him how you feel about it. good luck xx
Reply:he has bad experiences in past
Reply:Have you ever asked him about his religion? Just wondering because if he is a Jehovah's Witness then they do do not celebrate the holidays because they believe that they are pagan holidays. If he does not want to give you what you want or need then maybe you need to move on to bigger and better things in life. Romance is out there for you if you want it,just be patient and try to look for it some where else.
Reply:my name is kayla and i have been in your situation. what i can tell you is don't let it alone and feel bad from it and not tell him. take time ot sit with him alone and talk to him and if you feel unsafe doing it alone get some one you trust and have them sit down with you and talk to him. he can't read your mind you havve to tak it out when it going bad and it seems to me like it is going wrong for you. and if you do not know how to start the conversation, how about starting it with i feel. if he truly loves you he will try to fix it.





with my ex i was in the same position, the thing is he never took time to get to know me and things went sour and it got me to the point where i started to talk to some of his friends and exs and they all told me one thing be careful and he may cheat on you and here ne was and he also tryed to get me bc i was with his friend and i will admit i did fall for it and let me tell you. he may be trying to get me now, but he won't because i am not going to fall for it and i am in a place now where things are right and going great he may try to find ways to threaten me but i do not care because i only ignore him and go on living my life the way i want to. i also will teel you that his parents did not like me only because i was related to sertain person and they also hurt religions because they sat their and said that they where better than GOD himself that their life was perfect in every way and that really hurt.





if i was you the best thing to do is talk to him and do not feel trapped by him ok and if it comes down to it and he does not listen then i would leave because why stay with some one who doesn't love you for you, but for your money and his looks.
Reply:I have dated my BF for 2 yrs and since we started dating he has only bought me a necklace and a hand written card for our first valentiens day! he didnt get me anything for my 20th B-day i bought him and his friends alcohol and dinner, our one year anniv, my 21st b-day i bought him alcohol, nothing for christmas in 05, 06, or this year or our 2 yr anniversary. he gets me plants here and there cause i love plants. But it would be nice to go out to dinner other than McDonalds sometimes, or a nice gift that he put some thought into. He sucks at being romantic, and i am a girl who needs romance. He claims that fixing my car and getting my work clothes ready for me when i am in a hurry is doing little things for me. C'mon where is the ROMANCE!!



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